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What Sex-Positivity Taught Me

recoveringyomisma:

I truly hate sex-positivity with a passion.

When I was younger, I had a very impressionable friend who like me, ascribed to liberal-feminist thought all about the importance of consent and how ~BDSM WAS SO COOL~ and glamorized. We were teenagers who just fell into the line of thinking that sex was the adult thing to talk about and discuss openly without strings attached when it could properly be the farthest thing from it.

Sex-positivity made me think casual sex with grown men in their 40s at 18 was an ok thing to do.

Sex-positivity taught me that I did not require emotional attachment to sex with men 20 years my senior.

Sex-positivity taught me that I was frumpy and old fashioned if I wanted an emotional connection with my partner.

Sex-positivity made me think that my “VANILLA” desires were frumpy and not a worthy form of sex. It was not glamorous to talk about. It was devoid of passion.

Sex-positivity taught me all sexual acts were equal and that I should not shame people for their ‘kinks’. Even if it involved me forcing to play out some fantasy someone had.

Sex-positivity taught me that your ‘first time’ shouldn’t matter. Oh, did it matter to me. Four years later it still does. Four years later I still shudder. I was raped. It wasn’t my first time.

Sex-positivity alienated friends I have made who did not fall into this line of thought. It made me alienate other young girls who were as uncomfortable about sex as I was.

All because I was afraid of losing that one friend who pressured me into thinking the same way they do.

womensliberationfront:

"All the girls go to their shoots high on something, whether it’s painkillers, weed, ecstasy, or cocaine."

"I was hanging out with a veteran male performer, who I knew was sadistic, but what he did to me that night…I was not expecting."

"Through the course of my porn career, I had to go to the emergency room several times. I had several instances where I cried on set because of the pain."

"I am simply thankful to be alive, unlike porn star Taylor Summers, who was KILLED during a BDSM shoot."

SEXUAL SADISM IS AS OLD AS PATRIARCHY. It is not remotely “progressive”, leftist, or “liberating”- it is a primary pillar of male supremacy. We at WoLF are anti-pornography, anti-male violence, and pro-healthy sexuality. We are for the total liberation of women

http://womensliberationfront.org/ 

(Trigger warning: sexual violence, rape, torture)

Few mediums reveal the White sexual imperialistic exploitation of Asian women more so than pornography. In a 2002 study conducted by Jennifer Lynn Gossett and Sarah Byrne, out of thirty-one pornographic websites that depicted rape or torture of women, more than half showed Asian women as the rape victim and one-third showed White men as the perpetrator. The study further uncovered a strong correlation between race and pedophilia, advertising with titles such as “Japanese Schoolgirls” or “Asian Teens.” Furthermore, images of Asian women in pornographic forms consistently came up through a keyword search for “torture.” Many scholars warn that race-specific pornography contributes to race specific sexual violence. Since the overwhelming majority of violent pornography features Asian women in particular, it follows that Asian women are at even greater risk of sexual violence due to their role in violent pornography.

Pornography leads to other alarming sexual-racial trends involving Asian women as well. For example, depictions of Filipinas as sexual commodities on the Internet have been linked to the mail-order bride industry in Australia. Researchers further speculate that online sexual commodification of Filipinas may at least partially explain why Filipinas experience disproportionate levels of domestic violence compared to non-Filipina women.

White men’s fascination with Asian women in pornography stems from early nineteenth century Western imperialism. To colonize the Asian nations, countries such as the United States flooded Asia with military forces. As an inevitable result of military presence, prostitution centers consisting of local civilian women sprung up to cater to the White servicemen. With these sexual experiences as their main, if not only, encounters with Asian women, White servicemen returned home with the generalization that Asian women are hypersexualized and always willing to comply with White man’s prurient demands. This germinated even more interest in Asian women as sexual objects. To sustain this increased interest, the Asian sex tour industry developed. Asian sex tourism further perpetuates the stereotype of Asian women as hypersexualized and always willing. If Asian women are perceived as hyper-sexual, it understandably follows that sexually explicit materials, pornography for example, would include a preponderance of Asian women.

WHITE SEXUAL IMPERIALISM: A THEORY OF ASIAN FEMINIST JURISPRUDENCE

(also: The Hypersexuality of Race: Performing Asian/American Women on Screen and Scene, Asian Pacific American Women and Racialized Sexual Harassment, Dragon Ladies: Asian American Feminists Breathe Fire (via 100newfears)

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diaryofalandlockedmermaid:

Cymbeline, Act II Scene III. By Alfred Joseph Woolmer.

diaryofalandlockedmermaid:

Cymbeline, Act II Scene III. By Alfred Joseph Woolmer.

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serum114:

Sun Fei Fei by Willy VanderperreAnOther Magazine SS 2014

serum114:

Sun Fei Fei by Willy Vanderperre
AnOther Magazine SS 2014

modelsofcolor:

Make-Up look for Zac Posen F/W 2012

modelsofcolor:

Make-Up look for Zac Posen F/W 2012

modelsofcolor:

Daiane Sodré in Brazil’s U+ Magazine, April 2012 by Fernando Mazza

modelsofcolor:

Daiane Sodré in Brazil’s U+ Magazine, April 2012 by Fernando Mazza

Anonymous asked: Black is beautiful. White is beautiful and every other color in between is also beautiful. :)


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odinsblog:

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jayjsupremacy:

lookatthewords:

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I dunnoooo I think you already know that “White is beautiful” don’t you?

Or will it shatter your beauty if I recognize mine?

WELL DAMN

Perfect.

Straight up dedicating this post to allergictofeeling who so exemplifies this post by reblogging a post about Nicki Minaj  image then tagged it “no need to play the race card

please keep your self centered ignorance, micro-aggressions and derailing all to yourself

youdidwhatnow:

Ajuma Nasenyana

youdidwhatnow:

Ajuma Nasenyana

runway-report:

Jasmine Tookes backstage at Balmain RTW F/W 2012

runway-report:

Jasmine Tookes backstage at Balmain RTW F/W 2012

(Source: style.com)

shugarskull:

Yeon Woo Jhi

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blackheart279:

Angolan Model Leila Lopes Miss Universe 2011

blackheart279:

Angolan Model Leila Lopes Miss Universe 2011

dykebunny:

I’ve had so many lesbians come to me and ask for advice about what to do with trans women who threatened to rape them when they refused their sexual advances and yet people accused them of being a transphobe instead of protecting them. Young lesbians constantly seek for a lesbian safe space so they can fucking breathe and not being shitted on for once. Lesbians get corrective raped and gets thrown under the bus by bihet women for the sake of men. We literally have to risk our safety and lives when we ask for a space to talk specifically about female anatomy and centralise female issues. We get told we don’t own our sexuality yet people wear our sexuality and culture like clothes and throw it off when they get sick of it, but you fuckers still have the nerve to diminish us by calling us terfs and tell us we’re the ones who should be ashamed while you prioritise males over us, mock and treat us like a fucking joke? Fuck you. 

nextyearsgirl:

poppypicklesticks:

And the award for Least Self-Awareness Goes To…

Okay but misandry-mermaid fucking worships men…

She’s a pro-sex industry rape apologist & raging lesbiphobe. 
I like how her icon is a stupid mermaid that tried to drown another girl out of jealousy over a boy. It’s almost as if there’s a correlation between how shitty your feminism is & how much you obsess over shitty Disney cartoons.

nextyearsgirl:

poppypicklesticks:

And the award for Least Self-Awareness Goes To…

Okay but misandry-mermaid fucking worships men…

She’s a pro-sex industry rape apologist & raging lesbiphobe. 

I like how her icon is a stupid mermaid that tried to drown another girl out of jealousy over a boy. It’s almost as if there’s a correlation between how shitty your feminism is & how much you obsess over shitty Disney cartoons.

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